Saturday, 31 October 2009

You're nothing but a sick pervert.

Haven't been in here for a while now. Life at the moment? Comparable to the vacuum cleaner. - It's sucks.

Ah just realised, I don't come blogging until something extreme's up. Was busy googling since i got home, looking up which Act actually works to protect us. And what constitutes sexual harrasment at work? Why is everyone taking lightly on this matter. Not forgetting the upper management, do nothing good- but picking their nose during office hour, gossip, updating themselves on facebook, and "observe" us on the cctv.

Honestly this is very very sickening. I told (more like complaining) to Aunty A, and she thought it was only a pea sized problem. She grinned at me and walked away. (!!??)

I was on the floor for this big group of 20 pax- a stag night party. While i was taking the beverage order, this half-drunk-concsious guy came behind me, holding my upper waist and whispered he wanted a beer. I sensed something wasn't right but still managed to escape.

No, story didnt end there.

When i brought the check to the table, the same guy- asked for my name ( ha. i pretended deaf) and he tried to be friendly i pressumed? Hmm he came nearer to me, landed his hand on my shoulder.

Then slowly went thru my back and stopped at the waist.

Do i need to elaborate more? Use your imagination. Hey mate, patience has its limit. What did i do? I pushed him away. Yes i actually pushed his upper arm away from me.

He responded " Watch out you!" - and "becareful." That moment i didn't exactly know what he meant. But i remember vividly, i said " Watch your hand you!"

He was embarrassed i suppose? The people surround looked at us, wondering what is going on. I gave him the most powerful stare. The "thousand yards stare" quoted from waiter rant. He walked out and pretended nothing has happened. I know i know, wtf right?

Sigh. What can I do?

Later Aunty B said , she got molested too. I asked ,"why didn't you voice out to that guy?" Aunty B commented "let it be." Prolly she thought it was a small problem.

Hey why!!?? Was it just me ? Because customers' always right, that's why we needed to keep quiet? What's the point of the act/law against sexual harrasment designed for?

Other colleagues? - They said and i quoted.

"more to come",
"welcome to the harsh world, baby waitress." :)
Those words slapped on my face and i'm feeling wee-bit dodgy now.

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